I&R
hmm.. well... past few days/weeks, many little events happen here and there, which are quite bothering u noe... little things here and there add up, 集腋成裘，积少成多...been doing some I&R, insights(ing) and reflection(ing).. made me think...
hmm does being a guy, dis-entitle you to be sensitive? to be emotional? to buff nails? lolx jkjk XD hmm some pple certainly think so.. which i oso dunno why.. afterall, SNAGs are the in thing now haha..
hmm and are all guys expected to be gentlemanly, sparing, blah blah blah, cannot get angry at gals? when they are being nice and gentlemanly, chivalrous, it is expected of them to do so, therefore, no thank-yous are in due, no gratitude, or maybe juz some brief ones. 说了算了. and then, if they do not do so, they get criticised, bitched about, and scolded... well well, thats not really fair is it?
no one likes to be taken for granted... though everyone is guilty of commiting this sin... the taking for granted in general sin i mean...
and is it really fair to like be angry/ignore a person for some particular reason which is not really apparent and clear cut, but vague. and on the other side, he/she would be thinking "huh? what i do?" because he/she did not intend in anyway for you to think that way, and doesn't know that u are actually thinking that way... the least u cld do is to sort things out and make it clear to him/her, instead of juz being angry at him/her and making the latter feel lost and helpless... because afterall, ur not even sure urself. as the saying goes, innocent until proven guilty.
a seemingly cheerful and happy visage does not mean he/she has no worries, no problems, sorrows... afterall he/she bottles it all up and hides all the skeletons in the closet, with not a vestige of his/her other side exposed. but occasionally, when it all gets too hard to bear, the rock cracks under the pressure and some things start to show... that doesnt mean one shld go like "why should he/she care? i tot he/she whole day anything anyhow?" and start getting all judgemental on him/her..
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" -plato
oh well... lol.. didn;t want to sound too solemn, but failed... oh and ya, the guys don't get it... lol.. juz dun really seem to understand gals, but oh well... "no need to understand. they dun even understand themselves" - mengying
LOL... kk peaceout
/\/egima Fr34K* toked kok @ 2/25/2007 09:47:00 pm
1 Comments:
lol i decided to be nice and comment! or actually im bored haha.
well. point is. ya i guess girls do need to be more understanding of guys at more times. yup.
and yup i hope that whatever didn't go too right/went wrong is better now or at least has some resolution (: jiayou~
and i still think guys shouldnt buff their nails lol.
bel
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